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家园共育重要性

Importance of Home Breeding

著名幼教专家陈鹤琴说过:“幼儿教育是一件很复杂的事情,不是家庭或幼儿园可以单方胜任的,必定需要双方共同合作。”简单又朴实的一段话,道出了幼儿园和家庭必须两者同向同步的形成教育合力,才能有效地促进幼儿的发展。

Chen Heqin, a well-known expert in preschool education, said: "Preschool education is a very complex matter, not that families or kindergartens can be competent unilaterally, it must require mutual cooperation." Simple and simple passage points out that kindergartens and families must work together in the same direction in order to effectively promote the development of children.

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家园共育重要性

Importance of Home Breeding

家园共育

《幼儿园教育指导纲要》在指导要点中指出:“社会学习是一个漫长的积累过程,需要幼儿园、家庭和社会密切合作、协调一致,共同促进幼儿良好社会性品质的形成。”

The "Guidelines for Kindergarten Education" points out in the guidelines: "Social learning is a long process of accumulation. It requires close cooperation and coordination between kindergartens, families and society to jointly promote the formation of good social qualities for young children. "

社会学习是一个漫长的积累过程,需要幼儿园、家庭和社会密切合作、协调一致,共同促进幼儿良好社会性品质的形成。

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家园共育的重要性

父母的陪伴和榜样很重要,孩子的第一任老师,其实就来自父母和家庭,因此家庭教育在一个人的成长过程中起着非常关键的作用。但毕竟不是所有的家长都受过高等教育,曾经看过一篇文章,文中提到当今中国的学历,只要3%的人接受过本科教育。我们作为父母,最重要也最简单的一点就是,以身作则身体力行地实践。这就是我常和朋友们说的润物细无声的家庭教育,也是一种潜移默化的无形教育。
很多人理解的教育其实是狭义的教育,比如幼儿园老师在幼儿园教学,手把手地教孩子们拼音、数学、唱歌;中小学老师在学校给学生上语文课、数学课、以及其他的学科;大学老师给大学生们讲课,这些都是非常明显看得见的教育。
但是,当我们教育孩子怎样做人、如何培养他的勇敢精神、责任感等品质时候,我们作为父母的该怎么教育呢?很多道理其实都是脱离实际,对于孩子来说免得太空泛和太遥远,这时候,只有父母能以身作则,孩子才能真正去理解或者说受影响。其实,真正的教育过程开始于一个人的出生并持续终身,对人产生持久而深刻的变化。这就是我们常说的广义的教育,来自家庭、学校、社会等方方面面。美国的杜威说过教育即生活。
童年时期的孩子模仿力极强,父母在孩子面前的一言一行他都可能完整地复制下来,所以有时候你看到孩子有一些行为需要纠正之处,你先反省自己,是否在某个场合某个时间自己是否有过类似的言行?记得女儿才一岁多的时候,有一次看到她坐在沙发上,搬起自己的一条腿搁到另一条腿上,反反复复练习了几次,我恍然大悟,这一定是她在日常生活看到了家庭成员中有人翘二郎腿,她就在学翘二郎腿。从此以后,我特别注意自己的一言一行,无论生活当中还是工作当中,我从没有说过粗鲁的话,因此女儿从出生到现在,我也从没有听到她说过一句粗俗的话。
聂圣哲先生说过这样的话:优秀是教出来的,家庭教育尤为重要,其实,家庭教育是一个人将来能否立足社会的根本。从人生的教育总量来讲,家庭教育的重要性占80%的比重。 家庭教育没有那么复杂,就是劳动教育,两件事情,做家务,学吃苦,先从养活教育开始。
真正能给孩子直接影响的是他们的父母。尤其是母亲,因为自从他住进你身体子宫那一刻,你就与他同呼吸,一直到呱呱坠地,每时每刻都与孩子在一起。出生后,母亲也是陪伴婴儿期最多的人,母亲的言行举止直接成为孩子的模仿对象。因此,父母的一言一行如果是得体的,那么你的孩子将是最直接的受益者。
父母是孩子生命里最初的良师益友,也是孩子最亲密的人。我看过很多很负责任的妈妈,她们真的很辛苦,照顾孩子的生活起居,辅导孩子的作业,甚至还给孩子做笔记,可以说是事无巨细,什么都直接参与到孩子的成长中了。而有的父母,为了让孩子少走弯路,告诉孩子这个不可以做,那个该怎么做,在整个陪伴的过程中,不停地唠叨、不停地指出错误、不停地纠正孩子、不停地训斥,最后双方都不开心,孩子因此缺乏自信,父母也非常地疲惫。
孩子虽然小,但是他们有自尊心、他们有自己的想法。教育孩子是所有父母的天职,父母的角色既是父母、也是老师、更是朋友,只有将三者充分融合起来,不忽视孩子们的内心想法,不忽视对他们的情感和关爱,只有双方关系建立在亲切、平等和尊重的基础上,才能更好地沟通。而要做到这些,则需要父母以身作则,做孩子的榜样。如果你要求他每天看书学习,那你问问自己,你每天看书了吗?如果你要求孩子少玩手机,你反省自己,你每天是不是喜欢抱着手机?如果你要求孩子不要撒谎,你想想自己,是否当着孩子的面在电话里对客户或老师撒谎过?如果你要求孩子不要玩游戏,你对照自己,是不是你经常出去麻将或其他?
家庭教育如果相对完善的前提下,做为家长该如何与幼儿园同步同向的进行教育合力呢?首先认同园所的教育理念,当有不确定或迷惑时,要及时求助,一个方法不可能应对所有孩子,而是一个孩子要运用一百种方法,与老师打组合牌,做到家、园规则要求一致,态度一致,配合园所及老师的要求,共同培养“自然而然说英语 自由自在走世界”的国际自由族人才。


Parental companionship and role models are very important. The first teacher of a child comes from his parents and family. Therefore, family education plays a key role in a person's growth process. But after all, not all parents have received higher education. They have read an article in which only 3% of them have undergraduate education. As parents, the most important and simplest thing is to practice by example. This is what I often tell my friends about moistening things silently family education, but also a subtle intangible education.
Many people understand that education is actually narrow education, such as kindergarten teachers in kindergarten teaching, hand-in-hand teaching children Pinyin, mathematics, singing; primary and secondary school teachers in school to students in Chinese, mathematics, and other disciplines; university teachers to students, these are very obvious. Education.
But when we teach our children how to behave, how to cultivate their courage, sense of responsibility and other qualities, how should we as parents teach them? In fact, many of the reasons are divorced from reality, for children to avoid too vague and too far away, at this time, only parents can lead by example, children can really understand or be affected. In fact, the real process of education begins with a person's birth and lasts for a lifetime, resulting in lasting and profound changes. This is what we often call education in a broad sense. It comes from family, school, society and so on. Dewey in America said that education is life.
Children in childhood imitate very well, parents in front of their children's words and deeds he may be completely copied, so sometimes you see that children have some behavior to be corrected, you first reflect on yourself, whether on a certain occasion at some time they have similar words and deeds? I remember when my daughter was just over one year old, she once saw her sitting on the sofa, lifting one of her legs and putting it on the other leg. She practiced several times over and over again. It dawned on me that she must have seen some of her family members cross their legs in her daily life, and she was learning to cross their legs. Since then, I have paid special attention to my words and deeds. I have never said rude words in my life or in my work. Therefore, since my daughter was born, I have never heard a rude word from her.
Mr. Nie Shengzhe said that excellence is taught, and family education is particularly important. In fact, family education is the basis of whether a person can base himself on society in the future. In terms of the total amount of education in life, the importance of family education accounts for 80%. Family education is not so complicated, that is, labor education, two things, do housework, learn to bear hardships, starting with the education of support.
What really affects children directly is their parents. Especially mothers, because from the moment he lives in your body's uterus, you breathe with him, and you breathe with him until you fall to the ground, and you are with your children all the time. After birth, mothers are also the ones who accompany their babies the most. Mothers'words and deeds directly become children's imitated objects. Therefore, if the parents'words and deeds are appropriate, then your children will be the most direct beneficiaries.
Parents are the first mentors and friends in their children's lives, and they are also the closest people to their children. I have seen a lot of responsible mothers. They are really hard working, taking care of their children's life, living, tutoring their children's homework, and even taking notes for their children. It can be said that nothing is too big or too small. Everything is directly involved in the growth of their children. Some parents, in order to let their children take less detours and tell their children what to do and how to do it, keep nagging, pointing out mistakes, correcting their children and scolding them all the time during the whole process of accompanying them. Finally, both sides are unhappy. The children lack self-confidence and the parents are very tired.
Although children are small, they have self-esteem and their own ideas. It is the duty of all parents to educate their children. The role of parents is not only parents, teachers, but also friends. Only by fully integrating the three, not ignoring children's inner thoughts, not ignoring their feelings and love, can we communicate better if the relationship between the two sides is based on kindness, equality and respect. 。 To do this, parents need to set an example for their children. If you ask him to read and study every day, ask yourself, do you read every day? If you ask your children to play less with mobile phones, you reflect on yourself. Do you like to hold mobile phones every day? If you ask your child not to lie, think about yourself. Have you ever lied to a client or teacher on the phone in front of your child? If you ask your child not to play games, do you often go out to mahjong or something?
If family education is relatively perfect, how can parents work together with kindergartens in the same direction? First of all, we should agree with the educational idea of the kindergarten. When there are uncertainties or confusions, we should ask for help in time. One method can not deal with all children. Instead, a child should use 100 methods to play combination cards with the teacher, so that the rules of home and kindergarten are in accordance with the requirements of the kindergarten and the teacher, and cultivate "self" together. However, speaking English freely and freely goes around the world.


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